Drama Free Zone
One thing that I’ve noticed gets under the skin of negative people is refusing to conform to their ways. Negative people tend to get offended when you choose not to participate in their negativity. Never feel bad about being your own person. Never let anyone make you feel bad for choosing to be positive. Don’t feel like you have to contribute to the latest gossip because you don’t want to feel left out.
Negative vibes can bring an atmosphere down. Negative vibes can bring your energy down and those around you. It can make your day less productive. Sometimes, if we’re not careful, we can project those negative vibes onto others without realizing it. If you’re around someone that’s always negative, someone that always has negative energy, don’t let them bring you down. Don’t let negative energy affect your peace.
You don’t have to feel obligated to blend in. You don’t have to participate in conversations that go against your values. Upon awakening every day, something as simple as saying “I will have a positive day” can keep you motivated. Don’t waver. If you have to repeat this multiple times a day to remain positive, that’s perfectly fine.
As I was approaching my breaking point on my job, I found myself frequently saying “Today’s going to be a good day. I don’t have time for the drama. I’m not letting anyone disturb my peace. I will have peace.” I didn’t realize it then, because I thought I was just trying to help myself get through what seemed like endless days, but I was actually speaking my peace into existence.
Don’t be a chameleon. Don’t change based on who you’re around. If you’re a positive person, be positive at all times. Stay true to yourself. Speak positivity and peace into your life and your environment.
Take a moment to evaluate your life. Evaluate your surroundings. How is your energy and the energy of those around you? Do you have peace? Speak into your life and environment what you desire to have.
If you may be the person that’s not so positive, if you may not have the best energy, if you enjoy affecting the peace of others, take a moment to evaluate your life. Think about how it makes you feel when someone affects your peace. Be that change that’s needed. Be that positive example to those that may be used to the negativity.
You never know who’s watching. Your boldness could inspire someone else.